Well Rex, <BR>I will be a little more detailed about some of the behavors. <BR> For two & one half years She has brought gifts to me or my spouse almost daily, sometimes 10 times a day. Wine, wine glasses, floor rugs(5'x7'), An entire bedroom ensemble, because she said that I didn't know how to decorate for "romance"? A baggy of Mariajuana. Night gowns, perfume. She brought 100$ emerald earrings to my daughter. on and on We have refused them, of course. When I met her she was not the religion that I am..After she found out our religion, she was the "same religion" within a couple of weeks. <BR>When I would leave the house to go somewhere she would come over and offer my spouse rub downs or to do the laundry or start cleaning my house. I came home from the hospital once and she was cleaning my house, and she had been through my bedroom. She had conned my kids into letting her in. <BR>She will show up or call at all hours of the day or night to try to have me help her "counsel" her and some other person she is having an issue with.I have stopped answering her calls and I turn off the ringer at night. I had changed my number twice, but she has always found out. <BR>She has signed her children up to volunteer at the same places that my childern were first..and she has never signed up her childeren for anything like that before. <BR>I will go to the grocery store, she is there. I go to the thrift store, she is there. <BR> She started going to my chiropractor.She told my chiropractor that I had recommened her. I NEVER mentioned who I saw. <BR>She has claimed to have TB and 2 angioplasties. She called here every couple of hours about all three of these"diseases "and wanted me to take care of her. <BR>She has even called my ex husband to ask permission to adopt my 13 year old. He lives in a different state. <BR>She was constantly talking about "taking our relationship to the next level."to anyone that would listen to her. I have made it clear that this will not happen. The last time was the day before she attacked me. <BR> As I said, I had to go over to her home to speak to her spouse about the bow and arrow issue. She kept going on about how she loved me while she was attacking me. The cops wouldn't do anything because I was in her yard.She calimed that I came over to attack her. <BR>Now that I completely cut off our family from them, she sends her kids over here all day trying to get me to come over. They will stand on the city side walk in front of my door..."Laura, My mom wants you...you need to come over"...etc...we ignore them. <BR>She has tried to show up in my yard. I ask her to leave or ignore her. <BR> Last year She would show up at my work about every other day. I have a seasonal retail store I run and I caught her in the storeroom "reorganizing" everything. Now I own my own business and I have art shows that I go to on the weekend. She shows up at any of the ones that are within so many miles of my home. I could go on and on. <BR>I called the police, about the herb garden. She came over at 3 am and did it. She said that she was on her paper routes, even though I saw her do it. They did nothing. <BR>I just started keeping a journal. And I am keeping copies of the police reports too. <BR>I have thought about a restraining order. Her oldest son had one on her, and she attacked him with a knife and stuck it through his hand. <BR> The victim's coordinator at the Court told me yesterday that She has "stalked" her oldest son, and then the gal that owned the house before me..However she has never been charged with anything. The Vc said that is because she never usually crosses "the Line" But no one will tell me what the line is. .She is going to petition for a free restraining order. That is the only way to get the cops to do something about her. Otherwise I would have to wait until she attacks me agian , like in my own yard or in public..That is how it was explained to me. I thank anyone that can give me any advice or ideas.