I thought all would end there, but he met someone on line in a chat room and 3 days after I was divorced, they were married. We have had zero one on one contact since and I was happy he found someone that made him happy and tried to go on with my life. I am in nursing school and work part time.
12/2000 My oldest daughter attempted to get close to her dad which i thought was a good thing until a month later (the whole time she was not allowed to contact me) she was thrown on my door step with half of her belongings by her father. In an attempt to get her things back she called saying I would pull in the drive way and the things could be picked up from outside. His new wife told my daughter that if I pulled in the driveway she would bring out her 357 to the car to me.
5/2001 My car was stolen, someone anonymously reported that I faked the incident and it took almost a year for the pay out.
8/2002 The new wife contact friend of the court stating that I was having sex in front of my children. This was proven false and the charges were dropped.
8/2003 The ex and the new wife constantly told my children 10, 12 that I was a bad mother, a whore etc. They fought for custody and with things they way they were I thought it better to let them live with their father if that was what they wanted. I have joint custody with them living with him and me every other weekend. I honestly thought things would stop.
12/2003 the new wife contacted my place of work and told the secretary what a looser I was that I refused to pay the medical bills I owed to them and that she was going to come up to my office and post my pictures all over the walls.
6/2004 She went to a party where my daughter was at grabbed her and threw a beer all over her. The state police were called but they said it was my daughters word against her's and there is nothing that can be done.
10/2004 She contacted the new place that i moved to and told them that my credit was shot, they would be lucky to get a payment from me, did they know i had custody of only 1 of my children full time not 3. She also told them that she would be calling up to my work next.
My ex is a police officer and now a sergeant, I have went to the local police with the gun issue and nothing was done. I went to the State police when she attacked my daughter and nothing was done. I have ulcers, cannot sleep at night, and have caller id on my phone and I am scarred to answer it.