Pop goes the weasel....
Hey Guys!!! I miss you, even that silly bird. I guess it's time for an update and I don't feel like looking for one of me old threads.
Once I finally made the turn towards healing with MC things moved so fast. I think, in part, it was because I had learned to stand my ground with his crap. For the longest time I cut off contact with any mutual acquaintances. Not long after he slipped up and accused me of cyber stalking him while I was with the person he was trying to convince of me evil ways, I pushed back and I pushed had. He was posting all kinds of lies on some local news papers forums. He took documents and email that were altered to make me look like his stalker, scanned and posted all the originals. I had the complete record of events, including his emails during his very first attack of me. He was so blinded by rage during his first attack that he didn't think and explained how he had planned to steal public funds. Then I walked away and ignored his rants and protests online. I'm told the attacks continued for a little while. but not that long.
Then, a few months later, something amassing happened. I was asked to join a newly forming focus group that had to do with local issues. I attended the first meeting even though I knew mc had talked his way into this organization as an expert. After the meeting I spoke with the organizer and explained that I really believed in what he was doing, but would not be part of anything mc was. I didn't get into the stalking issue, I just showed him the emails and walked away.
The next day the organizer called me. He said the 2 people told him the entire story and then said they couldn't participate because of mc. mc was told he was no longer welcome in the organization.
About the same time I had come out of my shell and resumed my high profile position as an elected official. I was appointed to a Governors focus group and had just been elected as the President of another association that is pretty high profile her. Slowly, just about all of the associations he belongs to, cut him out. I had risen to the top of the feeding chain seemingly out of nowhere.
I have not heard anything about him in about 2 years. He crashed and burned in the field he so much wanted to dominate. There are no more drive bys, phone calls or internet posts. He has simply vanished from my world.
I do realize he has probably moved on to another victim because that's what he does. I know he has been banned from most of the local medias web site.
I'll never forget mc, but I did learn from all of this. If he were to show up here, or on any other site I used I won't panic. He is dead to me now and it is so awesome to have my life back.
Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light.
~Norman B. Rice